Monday, September 27, 2010
Tips on Creating a System to Manage Homework
School has started and have you noticed the avalanche of homework that the kids are bringing home? Do you feel overwhelmed, wondering how to fit it all in while trying to maintain a semblance of family life?
True, it’s the child’s responsibility to do the work. But we as parents need to create an environment at home that helps them get the work done, without always struggling over it, and that’s easier said than done.
Here are some tips on how parents can create a system that nurtures your child’s love of learning:
Create a routine. When they get home from school, children need to know where to put their jackets, bags, cell phones, etc. Then you can provide a protein snack with a full glass of water and while they’re eating just casually talk about how the day went. This allows everyone to relax and reconnect so you can enjoyably work together. After they’re done you can get down to business.
Create a quiet study area. It works to have the study area in the child’s room if your child is self-motivated to get the work done. If your child is too easily distracted and needs more of your attention, you might want to set up an area at the dining room table. This can easily be done by having all the supplies they’ll need ready in a bin nearby. When it’s time to set the table for dinner, you can return the items to the bin and the table is clean.
Remove distractions. The TV, cell phones, games and even music create extra clutter in the brain that they don’t need while they’re working. The quieter it is the better concentration will be.
List homework assignments from hardest to easiest. While it’s good to give children the choice of what to work on first, usually it’s best to get the hardest out of the way while they aren’t so tired.
Post a calendar for long-term assignments. It's easy for things to get forgotten or neglected and then there's the anxiety (and tears) over having to cram it in the night before it's due.
Post a calendar for long-term assignments. It's easy for things to get forgotten or neglected and then there's the anxiety (and tears) over having to cram it in the night before it's due.
Motivate your child by using a timer. An easy and inexpensive helper, just set a timer for the estimated amount of time needed to complete each task and they’ll be racing against the clock, not arguing with you about getting it done. This will help them to avoid procrastination and they’ll know when they can expect a break.
If you’re still working when the kids get home, you’ll have to modify your system to match your family needs. Ask your childcare provider to keep to the routine you establish. Why not make it simpler for everyone by hiring a tutor or delegating some of the household chores so you can devote the time and attention your children need?
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